The Soulmate Secret
So many people long to find the soulmate, thinking their life will finally be complete with this person. A soulmate is someone, almost certainly a lover, with whom you have shared many lives.
The soulmate experience is not always as blissful as people hope it will be, causing much pain and angst. Often couples are stuck on a karmic treadmill of repeating patterns that are destructive and painful.
To further confuse the issue, we actually have several soulmates with whom we have had past life relationships. Regressing to these lives helps us understand our soulmate’s purpose in this lifetime. Judy Hall author of The Soulmate Myth, describes soulmates as scourers of our soul as opposed to twin flames as supporters of our soul.
So many people long to find a soulmate
Thinking their life will finally be complete …
It is easy to get caught up in the belief that someone is our soulmate when in fact they are not. Energy vampires who have been draining our energy for centuries will continue this if we allow it. We can become addicted to false soulmates like any other addiction and become heartbroken when it all falls apart.
Often our soulmate is the person who is our greatest teacher of our hardest lessons. These soul mates maybe family members, friends, children, students or mentors.
So, we could conclude that a soulmate or false soulmate may be a narcissist. Soulmates are not the romantic ideal portrayed in society. The bottom line is if someone is abusing you while telling you they’re your soulmate, that doesn’t make the abuse okay. Don’t let the label soulmate convince you to stay in a narcissistic relationship. It is a favourite with some narcissists. Remember there’s no excuse for abuse. Take the lesson from this relationship and grow as a person.
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